What I Wish I Knew Before My First Cruise
So, you’re about to embark on your very first cruise? Congratulations! Cruising is such a unique and exciting way to travel, but I’ll be honest: it can feel a little overwhelming when you’re a newbie. Trust me, I’ve been there—googling all the tips and second-guessing everything I packed.
To help make your first cruise smooth sailing, I’m sharing all the little nuggets of wisdom I wish someone had told me before my first cruise.

Skip the Buffet on Day One
Everyone and their cousin will rush to the buffet as soon as they board, and it gets chaotic. Instead, check out the quieter dining rooms or smaller cafés open on embarkation day. Save the buffet for another time when it’s less crowded—you’ll thank me later!
Pack a Carry-On Bag with Essentials
On embarkation day, your checked luggage might not show up until dinner time. Pack a small roller bag with your must-haves: toiletries, medications, entertainment for the kids, and even a swimsuit if you’re planning to hit the pool early. Bonus tip: You’ll need this same bag on the last night since your big suitcase gets whisked away before disembarkation.
Take Time to Explore the Ship
Once you’ve had lunch, wander around and get a feel for the ship. Find your cabin, scope out the restaurants, locate the pool deck, and mark the spots you know you’ll want to visit. Knowing your way around will make your vacation so much easier.
Book Popular Activities ASAP
If there’s a show, spa treatment, or specialty dining experience you don’t want to miss, book it as early as you can—ideally before you even set sail. Spots fill up quickly, and trust me, you’ll regret waiting.

Research Port Adventures
You don’t always have to book excursions through the cruise line. Sometimes, exploring on your own or booking with local vendors can save you money. That said, always research carefully—getting stranded in a foreign port because you missed the ship is no joke.
Book Shore Excursions Before Boarding
Planning to explore the ports? Booking shore excursions through the cruise line’s website before your trip can save you money and help you snag discounts. Plus, many excursions sell out, so it’s better to plan ahead. Whether it’s a snorkeling adventure or a city tour, locking in your plans early means fewer headaches later.
Bring a Bottle of Wine or Champagne
Most cruise lines let you bring one bottle of wine or champagne per adult on embarkation day. It’s a nice little money-saver if you enjoy a drink. Be prepared for a corkage fee if you take it to the dining room.
Don’t Forget a Reusable Water Bottle
Staying hydrated is key, and bringing your own refillable water bottle makes life so much easier. You can fill it up at the buffet or bars and even take it with you on excursions. Plus, it saves you from shelling out for pricey bottled water on board.
Switch to Airplane Mode
Cell service at sea = $$$. As soon as you board, switch your phone to airplane mode to avoid accidental charges. If you need Wi-Fi, consider buying an internet package—or, like me, plan to go offline and reconnect when you’re in port.
Go Wild in the Dining Room
Here’s a fun secret: you can order as much as you want in the dining room! Love the shrimp cocktail? Get two. Can’t decide between entrees? Try both. Don’t be shy—this is your time to indulge.
Allergy-Friendly Dining is a Thing
If you or your family members have food allergies, let the cruise staff know. They take this seriously! My son has nut allergies, and they’ve always gone above and beyond to accommodate him, even offering a sneak peek at the menu to pre-order meals.
Explore All the Food Options
Don’t assume the buffet is your only option! Most ships have hidden gems, like a pizza place, burger joint, or café, that are included in your fare. Take time to scope out everything so you don’t miss out on the best bites.
Use the Ship’s Laundry Options
If your cruise is longer than a week, or you’re traveling with kids, laundry facilities can be a lifesaver. Some ships have self-serve laundromats, or you can hand wash a few items in your cabin. Pro tip: Travel-size detergent packets are your friend.
Customize Your Cabin Setup
Your room steward can work magic with your cabin. Need the beds separated? Prefer a different configuration? Just ask! They’re there to make your stay as comfy as possible.
